Weddings, weddings, weddings!!!!

 Hey Lovies

You all know how wedding crazy we Nigerians are. From those of us who are addicted to wedding websites, to those who had their weddings planned down to their wedding song since they were 10 years old. Recently, Linda Ikeji brought a dilemma her friend had on her blog. Her friend was been asked to contribute a mandatory N50,000 to a friend's wedding and she asked if she was obligated to. Of course the general consensus was a resounding NO, amidst people reigning curses of the bride to be for making such a request.

My opinion was that they should cut their coat according to their cloth. I've often wondered how the average Nigerian can afford to pay for the kind of lavish weddings we tend to have. Why go into debt for a one day event. I would like a small, intimate and very beautifully done wedding. I don't want the whole world and their maama at my wedding. Anyhoo, what do you guys think of the extravagant weddings Nigerians are famous for and what kind of wedding would you like to have?

For those of you getting married this year or sometime soon, i have good news for you. You might be eligible to win N4 million for your wedding. is offering a chance to one lucky couple to win N4,000,000 for their dream wedding. The namywedding team has partnered with the top wedding vendors in Nigeria to bring the couple’s dream wedding to reality. The prize package includes make-up by House of Tara, photography by Camara Studios, Wine and Gold Specialty Caterers, wedding cake by Upper crust cakes, event planning by Zapphaire Events, Hall Décor by Furtullah Consultants, Groom & Best Man dressed by Wardrobes Clothes & Accessories, Bride and Chief Bride’s maid dressed by Yes I Do Bridal and USD$2,000 by Zenith Bank PLC. 77 couples have registered in the competition already with the leading couple holding down over 1742 votes. Bear in mind that registered users can only vote once a day.

So, is a wedding planning and community website. The site contains an extensive wedding directory, a wedding advice section and planning tools to enable prospective couples find wedding vendors, keep track of their wedding plans, interact with other couples and find useful information to guide them through the process. also has incisive articles, advice from leading relationship experts, and answers to questions around weddings and much more. The goal at is to provide every couple with access to vendors and professional tips to ensure that their dream wedding is brought to life.

Even if you have no plans to get married soon, head on over there, bookmark the site. You know you are going to need it one day.